MMF - Why I take my time getting to know you first.

Hey everyone! Just wanted to give a friendly heads-up about dating etiquette, especially for the guys interested in MMF experiences. When we chat, it's cool to take it slow and get to know each other before I introduce you to my playmate.

We're both independent individuals, you know? She's not my romantic partner, just a great friend I have some fun with. And yeah, we're definitely into those MMF experiences. So, if you message me and not her and want me to introduce you, and turns out we're vibing with each other, I might suggest some one-on-one time—whether it's sexual or non-sexual—to see if we're both into that too. But don't worry, it's not some hidden motive or a prerequisite for experiencing anything together. Oh, by the way, you can totally send her a message too. I'm not some gatekeeper, haha! It's just if your move is to play off my credibility - I'm going to sus out the situation first.

Now, let me share a story that made me realize the importance of caution. So, this guy I was talking to all week about solo stuff and MMF wanted to meet up, but he kept flaking with excuses. After a failed attempt to meet earlier in the week. Today, I spent 5 hours driving around and waiting, from the backwoods of Hillsboro all the way out to Collins Beach.

Can you believe it?

Then he sent me a photo of his "car accident," but I realized it was from four months ago. Talk about sketchy as hell, right? I'm pretty sure I got catfished by someone trying to lure me to a nudist colony in the woods. If this was even real, and it doesn't seem like it, there will be a FaceTime expectation. So, let's all stay alert out there! Happy connecting!