
WRITTEN BY TUCKER MAX


HOW TO APPROACH ACTIVE SCENES AT A PLAY PARTY
You see a group mid-scene at a play party. It looks hot. You want in. But here’s the thing — just because you can walk up doesn’t mean you should. Consent isn’t just about touch. It’s about timing, energy, and respect for the dynamic already in motion. I’ve thrown over 20 sex parties in the past year and a half, and the number one complaint I hear is about guys interrupting group scenes they were never invited into.
If you’ve ever thought “well I’ve played with him before” or asked someone else for permission to join when you’ve already been told no — this is for you.
Read the room. Earn your spot. And for fuck’s sake, stop jerking off in someone’s ear unless they actually asked.


MUSK
Think you’re ready for a Stank party? Before you show up swinging your scent like a weapon, read this. This guide breaks down the real difference between musk and funk, why some guys get turned on by their own pits, and how to harness your natural scent without assaulting the room. It covers everything from chemistry and confidence to pit sniff contests and how not to blow it (literally). Whether you’re into spicy-salty sweat or full-on fermented filth, this piece helps you show up intentional, hot, and ready — not just smelly.










How to Take a Dick Pic (Because You’re Doing It Wrong)
Want to take a great dick pic that actually gets a response instead of ignored? Most guys are doing it wrong—bad lighting, awkward angles, zero effort. The key to a hot, well-shot nude is good lighting, strong angles, proper grooming, and a clean background. Soft natural light beats harsh overhead glare, and posing matters—try reclining, a side profile, or a bold under-angle instead of a lazy downward snap. Keep your hands and nails clean, make sure your balls are presentable, and don’t let your messy room ruin the shot. Use smart editing tools to enhance, not deceive—no weird filters, no stretching. And while some guys love surprise nudes, not everyone does—so ask first. Whether you’re sending it or just admiring your own work, a great dick pic is a work of art—so make it count.




The Unfair Stigma Around Male Nudity and Dick Pics
The stigma surrounding male nudity and dick pics highlights deep-seated gender biases and societal discomfort with male sexuality. Patriarchal norms have kept male nudity hidden, associating the penis with power and aggression, resulting in a significant gendered double standard in media and societal perceptions. This stigma unfairly penalizes men for expressing their sexuality and reinforces narrow definitions of masculinity. To address this, we need a cultural shift that fosters empathy, challenges patriarchal norms, and respects all expressions of human sexuality, promoting a more inclusive and balanced understanding of gender and sexuality.

Beyond Handlers and Mosh Pits: Pet Play
We need to explore the multifaceted world of pet play with our workshops and go beyond traditional just pup handler topics. Learn nuanced communication skills using body language, signals, and toys for deeper connections. Discover diverse breeds, archetypes, and honorifics to find your unique persona.

The Differences Between Gay, Queer, Swinger, and ENM Sex Spaces
Dive into the rich cultural tapestry of gay, queer, swinger, and Ethical Non-Monogamy (ENM) spaces, highlighting their role in promoting identity, community, and freedom. From the historical significance of dark rooms and gay bathhouses to the celebratory atmosphere of circuit parties and the respectful dynamics of swinger clubs, the article explores how these spaces contribute to a deeper understanding and acceptance of diverse sexual and social landscapes. Join me in celebrating the diversity and liberation that these communities offer, fostering empathy and inclusivity across various forms of relationships and identities.