My Sexual Post-Divorce Journey

During my sexual post-divorce journey, I'm discovering my own boundaries. Discovering new kinks. I claimed what I wanted and disregarded what I don't. I gave myself permission to make choices and not let my anxious now lack of attachment style rule over the situation. Getting back out there with new partners can be a good way of figuring out what I like and dislike and explore my sexuality. I won't be using casual sex to feel validated from the lack of love/attention or my lonely home but will validate myself and claim this power for my own. I'm dedicated to staying ethical and honest with people and responsible sti testing. My knowledge of sex and making love basically began and ended with with my ex-husband. There were definitely some experiences in my teens and 20s but nothing like what I had experienced with him. Consenting adults need no permission, but that of those involved. Sex is natural. I'm a human being. I should not be ashamed of it. I'm learning, I'm growing.