Couples Posting For A Third - With No Information On The Guy

Pro tip for those seeking a third: Craft a profile or ad that authentically represents both partners. It's counterproductive to complain about unwanted attention from guys or question why others are only interested in your partner when your own pictures are missing from the equation. Transparency is key – sharing her face but not yours can be frustrating, especially if the conversation is predominantly led by the guy.

If your response is: Why does he care what I look like? Then it's not a threesome looking for; you want a gangbang or a cuck scene and that's okay - just say that. I'm not even trying to make a case for bi play, just I like to have good energy with everyone who's there. It's about open communication and ensuring everyone involved feels comfortable.

If it's because of insecurities work through that, if it's because you want to have sexy talk with guys and feel this is a "not gay" way to do that, sit with that.